I had my first day at JCPennys as a cashier. It was long day of training. During this time I run in a my ex creepy stalker neighbor (call him DM)who watched me for two years bc of my 1st stalker my ex live in boyfriend (call me M). After I prove my ex bf was stalking me for six months and detailing on online. I took legal action. Just before M was kicking out my apt by me that is when DM moved into the apt on top across the yard.
DM was creepy from the beginning. Since DM was the only guy living in my apt area M and DM become friends. When M was kick out and after he was caught stalking this is when I believe that M ask DM to keep eye on me and recorded that details. This went on for two yrs until I moved out.
A couple years later I try to move in same apt building. The person that was living in old apt was legal problems was about to kick out. I signed a lease for sex months. My old landlord tells me to stay away DM BC of certain thing. She had discovered that DM has keep detail records on for me for 2yrs and the girls living there at the time. I believe he did this to cover that he was doing for M.
I was anger that my old landlord tells me this after I signed the lease. She wasn’t concerned about my safety after everything that happen with M. luckily the person living in the apt with legal problems was able to pay the rent he owed. He was a legal right to stay in the apt. Since they didn’t have any apt to rent to me my lease was void.
These happen 10 years ago. But it has shaken me to the core. I consider D my 2nd stalker bc my 1st stalker M ask him to do it. I believe that M told DM that I was out to hurt him and maybe even kill him. This is y DM keep an eye on me. I had no legal prove of this.
I don’t experience my 3rd and 4th stalker until I start working the hotel.
Stalking is a really bad experience especially with more one person over many years. I have feared for my life once than once. During this time is when my drinking and eating disorders were at its worst. I felt it the only thing I had control over since my sense of safety was gone.
With God help and some gal friends help through me this. The last few yrs have been good. I do look over my shoulders and I’m very aware of my surrounding.